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Sometimes a Babysitter in Your Home
Is Just The Right Thing:
Choose A Person With Whom You Can Talk Easily.
You want someone
you can relate with. Someone who you are not
afraid of being frank with. You want someone who
shares your values and morals and ideas about
raising children.
Choose
a provider who understands and loves your child
and shows it by:
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Giving attention to your child.
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Hugging your child.
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Using a gentle tone of voice with your
child.
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Smiling and laughing with your child.
Choose a provider who will help your child
behave
without hitting, slapping, yanking, shouting,
cussing, or scaring your child. She or he should
never use punishment associated with rest,
warmth, the toilet, or food. The provider should
show and tell your child what to do. Saying,
"Use the crayons on the paper" is more positive
and better than saying, "Do not write on the
table!"
Choose Someone Who Would Do What You Would Do:
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fix healthy snacks and meals from food
you buy.
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enjoys playing with and teaching your
child.
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keeps your child clean and comfortable.
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knows how to
care for your child in case of a sudden
illness or an accident.
Choose
a provider with good habits you would not
mind if your child copied. She or he should
not smoke, drink, or date when working for
you. A provider should be at least 18 years
old.
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